So Easy to Love

I want to talk about the kind of praise that keeps women small.

You know the kind.

“You’re so easygoing.”

“You’re just so chill.”

“You’re not like other women.”

“You’re so selfless.”

These sound like compliments—until you realize they’re rewarding your ability to abandon your own needs.

Here’s the truth:

Most of us were conditioned to be pleasant before we were taught how to be powerful.

We learned to be digestible, likable, flexible— even when it meant quieting the parts of ourselves that were inconvenient, emotional, or hard to explain.

It shows up everywhere:

→ Saying “whatever’s easiest” when you actually have a preference

→ Softening your tone so you’re not “too much”

→ Offering disclaimers for your dreams

→ Apologizing before you even begin

We become so afraid of being labeled difficult or dramatic

that we stop trusting the clearest parts of ourselves:

our voice, our needs, our no, our desire.

This is how women slowly disconnect from themselves—

by performing ease while privately longing for more.

But you can come back.

To your full voice.

To your unapologetic appetite.

To the part of you that knows she wasn’t born to be palatable—she was born to be powerful.

That’s what we did inside Become Her.

Not just confidence.

Not just clarity.

But a full-body return to the parts of you you thought you had to tuck away to be loved.

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