We only claim the identity once the result confirms it. Artist when it sells. Successful when the title hits. Beautiful when the mirror agrees. It’s intermittent reinforcement—like pulling a slot machine lever, chasing the rush and forgetting the losses. When we outsource our worth to outcomes we can’t fully control, we stay stuck chasing happiness instead of embodying it. Power returns the moment you decide who you are before the proof appears.

You’ve been sold a lie—that success lives in your sacrifice, your titles, your constant proving. But what really matters is the life that lights you up: the touch that sparks you, the yes that scares you, the moments you forget to be careful. Yes, I Am Too Much™️ is the revolution for women done with “good enough” and ready for a life that feels electric, abundant, and entirely their own.

You’ve probably noticed this about yourself: When a friend needs help, you’re there. No hesitation. No second thoughts. You’ll move mountains, reschedule your entire day, over-give until your own body is running on fumes.   But when it’s flipped? When someone wants to give to you? When they offer help, praise, love, or generosity, suddenly, your skin crawls. You deflect, minimize, brush it off. You turn it into a joke.  You’re more comfortable carrying everyone else than let

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There was a time when busyness was my drug. My schedule was full, my inbox cleared, my life looked impressive—but inside, I was crumbling. Because busy women almost always want more. Busyness just keeps us from admitting it. The moment you say it out loud, everything shifts. That’s what a Breakthrough Session does—90 minutes, one issue, real-time clarity. Normally $997, available Sept 22–26 for $199. Four spots only. If you’re tired of circling, this is your exhale.

When she first came to me, my client was a school teacher.   She was underpaid, overworked, and constantly told to be grateful for less . She wanted more— but didn’t know how to name it.   Sure, we could have focused on how to save money, budget better, or build deeper self-care routines.  But none of that would have touched what was really underneath.   What she needed was permission.   Permission to listen to her own voice. Permission to follow her intuition. Permission to

She came to me asking, “Do I stay or do I go?” Her job looked fine on paper, but every Sunday night brought dread. In 90 minutes, we uncovered what was really keeping her stuck—and she walked away with her resignation letter, a plan, and relief. That’s what a breakthrough looks like. For the first time, I’m opening Breakthrough Sessions—90-minute private sessions to create real-time transformation. Normally $997, available next week only for $199.

ChatGPT said: For years, I lived in the chokehold of “not enough.” No matter how much I achieved, it was never enough. Until one day, I realized I’d been worshiping at the altar of almost. Almost powerful. Almost free. Almost me. That day, I decided—enough isn’t a finish line; it’s the baseline. You don’t get unstuck by proving yourself. You get unstuck by refusing to negotiate your worth another second.

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Blaming them kept me stuck. Owning my response set me free. Because when my response is my responsibility, I don’t have to wait for anyone else to change before I do.

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By 23, I had three psychology degrees, top internships, and offers from the FBI, Homeland Security, and NYPD—yet I ended up working for a man I despised, burning out under the weight of others’ opinions. Quitting without a plan cracked me open. Now, I help women remember who they are so they stop shrinking for careers, relationships, or lives that drain them. That’s the pulse of Yes, I Am Too Much™: reclaiming pleasure, power, and purpose.

That flutter in your chest? It’s not fear—it’s your body saying don’t look away. Every woman you admire started before she was ready. Legacies aren’t born in certainty, they’re born in risk, in shaky first steps, in trusting your pulse over approval. That’s what’s happening inside Become Her. Women naming desires out loud, being celebrated, and this Thursday—we’re taking it even further. No replays. Just raw, unfiltered transformation.

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