ChatGPT said: For years, I lived in the chokehold of “not enough.” No matter how much I achieved, it was never enough. Until one day, I realized I’d been worshiping at the altar of almost. Almost powerful. Almost free. Almost me. That day, I decided—enough isn’t a finish line; it’s the baseline. You don’t get unstuck by proving yourself. You get unstuck by refusing to negotiate your worth another second.

That flutter in your chest? It’s not fear—it’s your body saying don’t look away. Every woman you admire started before she was ready. Legacies aren’t born in certainty, they’re born in risk, in shaky first steps, in trusting your pulse over approval. That’s what’s happening inside Become Her. Women naming desires out loud, being celebrated, and this Thursday—we’re taking it even further. No replays. Just raw, unfiltered transformation.

By now you know—I’ve been guiding women into their Yes, I Am Too Much™ era: women who are hungry for more, bold enough to claim it, and feral enough not to settle. But yesterday, on a Become Her call, I caught myself doing the very thing I tell my women never to do—second-guess. Imposter Syndrome whispered, and I pulled back. Played it safe. And then it hit me: if I’m asking them to show up unedited, unapologetic, and raw… I have to do the same. That’s why I pivoted. Becau

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