As you may know, I recently ran my first retreat in Bali. It was powerful, raw, and unequivocally life-changing. The women who arrived were not the same women when they landed home. In Bali, the air is thick with gratitude, levity, and personal awakening. One of the experiences I shared was a Melukat Ceremony, a water ceremony at a sacred temple, unknown to tourists, tucked deep in the lush jungle, and accessible only through a local guru. Our guide shared with us tha

Beautiful humans, I need to get something off my chest: There is no shortage of therapists, coaches, healers, and leaders out there — and I have a problem with most of them. Most of them have not spent the years, the time, or the energy actually understanding why women feel stuck. So they do not really know what moves the needle. They keep telling women to manifest harder, be more grateful, optimize more, control more, discipline deeper — and then wonder why nothing ac

I know what it is like to feel completely unstoppable in one room and completely unreachable in another. To feel bold, badass and beautiful in heels and a powersuit and the want to rip off my skin when the lights go off. I know what it is like to be the woman everyone calls when something needs to get done, and also the woman who goes quiet when someone tries to get close. I know this not only because I have sat with hundreds of women and helped them find their way back

Beautiful humans, It has been a hot minute since I slid into your inbox. Truth be told, I needed a break — a break to slow down, to pause, to re-anchor myself, and to reignite my own power and pleasure. And I need to let you in on a secret… These last two months have been positively transcendent, and I have every intention of sharing with you the glorious, the gory, and the downright WTF — because I want every woman to learn from my mistakes, feel seen, and feel as incredib

Beautiful humans, Something has been on my mind more often than I want to admit, so I felt the pull to drop a little reminder: Acknowledging that you were hurt is healthy. Building your identity around who hurt you is not. Because when you hang your healing, your peace, your confidence, your self-worth, or your future on someone else’s behavior, two very painful things happen. First, you burn enormous amounts of time, energy, and emotional bandwidth fixating on some

You’ve probably noticed this about yourself: When a friend needs help, you’re there. No hesitation. No second thoughts. You’ll move mountains, reschedule your entire day, over-give until your own body is running on fumes. But when it’s flipped? When someone wants to give to you? When they offer help, praise, love, or generosity, suddenly, your skin crawls. You deflect, minimize, brush it off. You turn it into a joke. You’re more comfortable carrying everyone else than let