So I need to clue you in on something.  I am standing on the edge of a massive, life-altering ascension .   When I left my company to build my own practice,  I knew I was destined for more freedom and more money.   But I truly had no freaking idea how big of a quantum leap I was about to take — or how many women I’d be taking with me.   This year, I invested well into the five figures.  I shared stages with legendary leaders and broke bread with industry icons.    And, yet

So I have to tell you a story — part to s pill some tea and remind you that no, you weren’t the only one whose family triggered old wounds, and part because it’s a damn good reminder.   Let’s set the scene.   I drove 14 hours to go to Illinois for my favorite day of the year. My gorgeous aunt not only made a delicious assortment of treats, staples, and interesting additions to my favorite meal of the year, but she also surprised me with a birthday party for my 14 month old s

Women have been sold a brutal lie: that life is supposed to feel hard. That struggle builds character, sacrifice equals success, and wanting more makes you selfish. I see brilliant women gripping their lives by the edge, convinced this exhaustion is normal. But you never signed a blood pact with the universe. Changing your mind is not failure—it’s evolution. Desire is not indulgence—it’s intelligence. You’re not here to perform your life. You’re here to inhabit it—fully, loud

I’ve noticed what separates the women in my circles from everyone else—and it isn’t effort or hustle. It’s intention. Not forced, frantic striving, but a grounded, embodied knowing. When women move from fear to trust, from habit to choice, everything shifts. Money feels safer. Time expands. Pleasure becomes a compass. Simple decisions create profound change. Because when you stop sleepwalking through life and start choosing with intention, ease, abundance, and freedom stop fe

We only claim the identity once the result confirms it. Artist when it sells. Successful when the title hits. Beautiful when the mirror agrees. It’s intermittent reinforcement—like pulling a slot machine lever, chasing the rush and forgetting the losses. When we outsource our worth to outcomes we can’t fully control, we stay stuck chasing happiness instead of embodying it. Power returns the moment you decide who you are before the proof appears.

This week as I was driving my feral child to day care, I popped on an Audible to drown out another rendition of Wheels on The Bus … and I happened upon Malcolm Gladwel’s Outliers . (Sidebar: this has been on my list to read for years and it is not disappointing!)   But anyway , he reminded me something I have always been fascinated with: Did you know that studies show that you only need 10,000 hours to become a master at something? For context, that's roughly ten years.  

This week, I was doing what I do, scrolling on Facebook, and saw a friend post about his weight loss journey.    He looked f*cking fantastic.  It's why I stopped to look in the first place. But beyond even the obvious weight loss, the most noticeable thing about the “AFTER” photo was his big, beaming smile.   The caption told me that he had been showing up at the gym, focusing on his health, really doing the work. But tucked into his celebration post was an apology too- " I k

You’ve been sold a lie—that success lives in your sacrifice, your titles, your constant proving. But what really matters is the life that lights you up: the touch that sparks you, the yes that scares you, the moments you forget to be careful. Yes, I Am Too Much™️ is the revolution for women done with “good enough” and ready for a life that feels electric, abundant, and entirely their own.

You’ve probably noticed this about yourself: When a friend needs help, you’re there. No hesitation. No second thoughts. You’ll move mountains, reschedule your entire day, over-give until your own body is running on fumes.   But when it’s flipped? When someone wants to give to you? When they offer help, praise, love, or generosity, suddenly, your skin crawls. You deflect, minimize, brush it off. You turn it into a joke.  You’re more comfortable carrying everyone else than let

I spent five days in a courtroom watching women face the man accused of stealing far more than their bodies—he stole their freedom, safety, and the lives they might have lived. What became painfully clear is this: society does not protect women, it protects power. Survivors are interrogated, doubted, and asked to carry the weight of violence in silence while systems bend to shield men with wealth and influence. I’m done being quiet about that, stand with me in refusing a cult

No one told me it would happen this way.   Not in one dramatic moment, but in a thousand tiny asks: ✨ Smile when you don’t feel like it. ✨ Say yes when your body screams no. ✨ Don’t rock the boat. Don’t want too much. Don’t be too much.   And so I started handing over little pieces of myself. One compromise here, one silence there. I didn’t even notice how much was burning until I was standing in the ashes.   That’s what society does best—it doesn’t shove you into silence, it

If affirmations actually worked, your mirror would have fixed your life by now. “I am enough.” “I am powerful.” “I am confident.”   Cute. But let’s be honest—those mantras aren’t what change your life. They don’t dissolve the resentment sitting in your chest at 2am. They don’t bring back the spark in your relationship. They don’t give you the courage to walk into your boss’s office and finally ask for the raise.   What does? Embodied action. And that’s what I see, over and o

It’s hard for women to get clarity on what they need when the world expects them to be everything for everyone else.   You’re running the house. You’re answering emails from the car. You’re the default planner, problem-solver, and peacekeeper. By the time you finally sit down to think about what you want, the mental noise is so loud it’s easier to just push it off another day.   This is exactly why I opened Breakthrough Sessions. One session. 90 minutes. Hyper-focused on the

Conscious entrepreneurs don’t have to choose between profit and purpose—your values are your competitive advantage. At The Boutique Business Council, I’m joining 15+ leaders to share real strategies for soul-aligned success, feminine leadership, and shifting your money mindset from survival to overflow. This is where wealth meets integrity—and where your business evolves without compromising who you are.

There was a time when busyness was my drug. My schedule was full, my inbox cleared, my life looked impressive—but inside, I was crumbling. Because busy women almost always want more. Busyness just keeps us from admitting it. The moment you say it out loud, everything shifts. That’s what a Breakthrough Session does—90 minutes, one issue, real-time clarity. Normally $997, available Sept 22–26 for $199. Four spots only. If you’re tired of circling, this is your exhale.

When she first came to me, my client was a school teacher.   She was underpaid, overworked, and constantly told to be grateful for less . She wanted more— but didn’t know how to name it.   Sure, we could have focused on how to save money, budget better, or build deeper self-care routines.  But none of that would have touched what was really underneath.   What she needed was permission.   Permission to listen to her own voice. Permission to follow her intuition. Permission to

She came to me asking, “Do I stay or do I go?” Her job looked fine on paper, but every Sunday night brought dread. In 90 minutes, we uncovered what was really keeping her stuck—and she walked away with her resignation letter, a plan, and relief. That’s what a breakthrough looks like. For the first time, I’m opening Breakthrough Sessions—90-minute private sessions to create real-time transformation. Normally $997, available next week only for $199.

When women stop prioritizing pleasure, they start silencing themselves everywhere. It’s not just the bedroom that goes quiet—it’s their voice, ambition, and spark. Pleasure isn’t about sex; it’s about permission. When you deny desire, you deny power. In Yes, I Am Too Much™, we reconnect pleasure with purpose—because the moment you start saying yes to what lights you up, you stop negotiating with yourself and start coming alive.

ChatGPT said: For years, I lived in the chokehold of “not enough.” No matter how much I achieved, it was never enough. Until one day, I realized I’d been worshiping at the altar of almost. Almost powerful. Almost free. Almost me. That day, I decided—enough isn’t a finish line; it’s the baseline. You don’t get unstuck by proving yourself. You get unstuck by refusing to negotiate your worth another second.

I’m joining 15+ powerhouse women for The Boutique Business Council, Season 2—a free 4-day event for conscious entrepreneurs who want to grow without the hustle. We’re talking wealth as revolution, intuition in business, storytelling, alignment, and abundance without burnout. If you’re craving more from your career and want to build success that feels good to your soul—this is your invitation.