I color-coded calendars, meal-prepped kale, and optimized my life trying to “get it right.” And still—it was never enough. The truth? Balance is BS. It’s not empowering, it’s soul-crushing. So what if the game was rigged from the start—and instead of playing fair, we went all in? Careers that light us up. Love that meets our standards. Energy that’s unapologetically too much. Stay close. Big things are coming.

This week as I was driving my feral child to day care, I popped on an Audible to drown out another rendition of Wheels on The Bus … and I happened upon Malcolm Gladwel’s Outliers . (Sidebar: this has been on my list to read for years and it is not disappointing!)   But anyway , he reminded me something I have always been fascinated with: Did you know that studies show that you only need 10,000 hours to become a master at something? For context, that's roughly ten years.  

You’ve probably noticed this about yourself: When a friend needs help, you’re there. No hesitation. No second thoughts. You’ll move mountains, reschedule your entire day, over-give until your own body is running on fumes.   But when it’s flipped? When someone wants to give to you? When they offer help, praise, love, or generosity, suddenly, your skin crawls. You deflect, minimize, brush it off. You turn it into a joke.  You’re more comfortable carrying everyone else than let

While it feels like two lifetimes ago, I can still remember lying in bed next to someone who was supposed to love me, who I was supposed to love back, staring at the ceiling, my body stiff with silence. The clock ticked. My chest was tight. And all I could think was:  why does this feel so heavy?   I told myself it was normal. That love was supposed to feel like work. That the pit in my stomach was just the cost of partnership.   But here’s what I know now: 👉 Love shouldn’t

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By 23, I had three psychology degrees, top internships, and offers from the FBI, Homeland Security, and NYPD—yet I ended up working for a man I despised, burning out under the weight of others’ opinions. Quitting without a plan cracked me open. Now, I help women remember who they are so they stop shrinking for careers, relationships, or lives that drain them. That’s the pulse of Yes, I Am Too Much™: reclaiming pleasure, power, and purpose.

This week was hard. The kind of week that calls a family to the table— emotionally, logistically, spiritually.   It was heavy. But...

Ways in which "praise" can be disguised from what it truly is- a way to keep us small.

How I learned to "take up space" and be the person you notice when they walk into the room as a women in their midlife.

The irony of being a coach and teaching and preaching empowerment to women in their midlife.

It does not matter if you are 15 or 50, you can still be "coming into yourself," because age is a mindset.