You Weren't Meant to be the Woman Suffering to Earn YOUR Life
- Allison Guilbault

- Dec 22, 2025
- 3 min read
I’m gonna say it again: women have been sold an ugly, dirty lie.
And not the white, harmless kind: the kind that steals decades of your joy.
You know the one.
The lie that screams: life is supposed to feel hard.
I see it everywhere.
Brilliant, driven women holding everything together by the skin of their teeth, convinced this is just the way it’s meant to be.
Think of all the stories we have been told along the way:
Marriage is supposed to be hard.
Struggle teaches us lessons.
Grinding gives us grit.
Career success comes with sacrifice.
Changing your mind, or your partner, or your job isn't responsible.
But I am here to remind you that you didn't sign some blood pact with the universe.
Changing your mind, trying new things, discovering new interests, passions + turn-ons is a gorgeous, powerful, perfectly healthy part of personal growth and evolution.
They’re signs you’re alive.
I realize that ambitious women who know what they want are often viewed as vain, selfish, flighty, even unwomanly.
I can hear the brunch table quacking from here:
“God, Evelyn never used to be like that!”
“Caroline is giving up all her security to take a risk at her age?”
"Jennifer is acting like someone in her 20s!'
It is no wonder that women are less likely to stick their necks out, ask for the raise, know what they want in life or in bed.
But that’s where I come in.
I’m not here to help you fix your life.
I’m here to help you embody the one you already have:
to live it deeper, louder, truer.
I’m here to help you drown out the noise and the stories that keep you in your head,
so you can finally move from thought to instinct,
from overthinking to knowing,
from performing to being.
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