We only claim the identity once the result confirms it. Artist when it sells. Successful when the title hits. Beautiful when the mirror agrees. It’s intermittent reinforcement—like pulling a slot machine lever, chasing the rush and forgetting the losses. When we outsource our worth to outcomes we can’t fully control, we stay stuck chasing happiness instead of embodying it. Power returns the moment you decide who you are before the proof appears.

She stayed for almost twenty years because it “wasn’t bad enough to leave.” Not good—just tolerable. A spotless home. Smiling vacation photos. A life that looked fine from the outside while quietly draining her from within. Each time she lowered her expectations, she moved farther from herself. What she knows now is this: the cost of staying the same is far higher than the cost of change—and the distance between what she had and what she wanted was never as far as she believe

You’ve been sold a lie—that success lives in your sacrifice, your titles, your constant proving. But what really matters is the life that lights you up: the touch that sparks you, the yes that scares you, the moments you forget to be careful. Yes, I Am Too Much™️ is the revolution for women done with “good enough” and ready for a life that feels electric, abundant, and entirely their own.

You’ve probably noticed this about yourself: When a friend needs help, you’re there. No hesitation. No second thoughts. You’ll move mountains, reschedule your entire day, over-give until your own body is running on fumes.   But when it’s flipped? When someone wants to give to you? When they offer help, praise, love, or generosity, suddenly, your skin crawls. You deflect, minimize, brush it off. You turn it into a joke.  You’re more comfortable carrying everyone else than let

It’s hard for women to get clarity on what they need when the world expects them to be everything for everyone else.   You’re running the house. You’re answering emails from the car. You’re the default planner, problem-solver, and peacekeeper. By the time you finally sit down to think about what you want, the mental noise is so loud it’s easier to just push it off another day.   This is exactly why I opened Breakthrough Sessions. One session. 90 minutes. Hyper-focused on the

Conscious entrepreneurs don’t have to choose between profit and purpose—your values are your competitive advantage. At The Boutique Business Council, I’m joining 15+ leaders to share real strategies for soul-aligned success, feminine leadership, and shifting your money mindset from survival to overflow. This is where wealth meets integrity—and where your business evolves without compromising who you are.

There was a time when busyness was my drug. My schedule was full, my inbox cleared, my life looked impressive—but inside, I was crumbling. Because busy women almost always want more. Busyness just keeps us from admitting it. The moment you say it out loud, everything shifts. That’s what a Breakthrough Session does—90 minutes, one issue, real-time clarity. Normally $997, available Sept 22–26 for $199. Four spots only. If you’re tired of circling, this is your exhale.

When she first came to me, my client was a school teacher.   She was underpaid, overworked, and constantly told to be grateful for less . She wanted more— but didn’t know how to name it.   Sure, we could have focused on how to save money, budget better, or build deeper self-care routines.  But none of that would have touched what was really underneath.   What she needed was permission.   Permission to listen to her own voice. Permission to follow her intuition. Permission to

She came to me asking, “Do I stay or do I go?” Her job looked fine on paper, but every Sunday night brought dread. In 90 minutes, we uncovered what was really keeping her stuck—and she walked away with her resignation letter, a plan, and relief. That’s what a breakthrough looks like. For the first time, I’m opening Breakthrough Sessions—90-minute private sessions to create real-time transformation. Normally $997, available next week only for $199.

How my client went from panicking when walking into a room to using her voice to become a published author.

This is Day 2 of learning how to become CONFIDENT as a women in their 40s and over.

How we prioritize other people’s comfort over our own needs. We disconnect from the parts of ourselves that crave nourishment, passion, and attention, and how it affects us over time.

Mindset shifts to make this summer start feeling and embodying your best self as a woman entering midlife.

This is my story on how I practiced what I preach and learned to be confidently, ME.

Resolutions seem be a grand idea, based in integrity, inspiration and good intention, a way to tap into our motivation and ambition.  The hypothesis is that if we just name our goals, maybe even proclaim them on social media, we will be more likely to meet them.

Deprivation mindset is dangerous...and...it keeps us stuck.