We only claim the identity once the result confirms it. Artist when it sells. Successful when the title hits. Beautiful when the mirror agrees. It’s intermittent reinforcement—like pulling a slot machine lever, chasing the rush and forgetting the losses. When we outsource our worth to outcomes we can’t fully control, we stay stuck chasing happiness instead of embodying it. Power returns the moment you decide who you are before the proof appears.

She stayed for almost twenty years because it “wasn’t bad enough to leave.” Not good—just tolerable. A spotless home. Smiling vacation photos. A life that looked fine from the outside while quietly draining her from within. Each time she lowered her expectations, she moved farther from herself. What she knows now is this: the cost of staying the same is far higher than the cost of change—and the distance between what she had and what she wanted was never as far as she believe

You’ve been sold a lie—that success lives in your sacrifice, your titles, your constant proving. But what really matters is the life that lights you up: the touch that sparks you, the yes that scares you, the moments you forget to be careful. Yes, I Am Too Much™️ is the revolution for women done with “good enough” and ready for a life that feels electric, abundant, and entirely their own.

You’ve probably noticed this about yourself: When a friend needs help, you’re there. No hesitation. No second thoughts. You’ll move mountains, reschedule your entire day, over-give until your own body is running on fumes.   But when it’s flipped? When someone wants to give to you? When they offer help, praise, love, or generosity, suddenly, your skin crawls. You deflect, minimize, brush it off. You turn it into a joke.  You’re more comfortable carrying everyone else than let

She sat across from me this week and said something I’ll never forget: “My divorce cost over $100K—and it’s the best money I will ever spend.” She wasn’t celebrating the ending of a marriage. She was naming the true cost of settling—the nights she pretended she was fine, the intimacy that felt like obligation, the slow erosion of her standards and self. That money bought her freedom, breath, mornings without dread, joy without rationing.

No one told me it would happen this way.   Not in one dramatic moment, but in a thousand tiny asks: ✨ Smile when you don’t feel like it. ✨ Say yes when your body screams no. ✨ Don’t rock the boat. Don’t want too much. Don’t be too much.   And so I started handing over little pieces of myself. One compromise here, one silence there. I didn’t even notice how much was burning until I was standing in the ashes.   That’s what society does best—it doesn’t shove you into silence, it

Most women aren’t stuck because they lack motivation—they’re stuck because they’re depleted, disconnected, and carrying quiet resentment. And change doesn’t happen by thinking harder or manifesting more. It happens through embodied action, supported in the right container. I’ve watched women reclaim clarity, confidence, boundaries, intimacy, and direction in just weeks when they step into spaces designed for real transformation. This October, you don’t have to keep circling.

Something people don’t always know about me is just how incredibly wild my career has been.   I’ve worked as a crisis counselor in a New York City ER. I’ve worked inside institutions in Sri Lanka with the NIH. I’ve taught sex ed in Philly high schools. I was a private investigator with the government. I got into the FBI.   But the one that always piques the most interest? My run as a mental health therapist in solitary confinement at the notorious Rikers Island.   Now—I’ll sa

It’s hard for women to get clarity on what they need when the world expects them to be everything for everyone else.   You’re running the house. You’re answering emails from the car. You’re the default planner, problem-solver, and peacekeeper. By the time you finally sit down to think about what you want, the mental noise is so loud it’s easier to just push it off another day.   This is exactly why I opened Breakthrough Sessions. One session. 90 minutes. Hyper-focused on the

Conscious entrepreneurs don’t have to choose between profit and purpose—your values are your competitive advantage. At The Boutique Business Council, I’m joining 15+ leaders to share real strategies for soul-aligned success, feminine leadership, and shifting your money mindset from survival to overflow. This is where wealth meets integrity—and where your business evolves without compromising who you are.

There was a time when busyness was my drug. My schedule was full, my inbox cleared, my life looked impressive—but inside, I was crumbling. Because busy women almost always want more. Busyness just keeps us from admitting it. The moment you say it out loud, everything shifts. That’s what a Breakthrough Session does—90 minutes, one issue, real-time clarity. Normally $997, available Sept 22–26 for $199. Four spots only. If you’re tired of circling, this is your exhale.

When women stop prioritizing pleasure, they start silencing themselves everywhere. It’s not just the bedroom that goes quiet—it’s their voice, ambition, and spark. Pleasure isn’t about sex; it’s about permission. When you deny desire, you deny power. In Yes, I Am Too Much™, we reconnect pleasure with purpose—because the moment you start saying yes to what lights you up, you stop negotiating with yourself and start coming alive.

ChatGPT said: For years, I lived in the chokehold of “not enough.” No matter how much I achieved, it was never enough. Until one day, I realized I’d been worshiping at the altar of almost. Almost powerful. Almost free. Almost me. That day, I decided—enough isn’t a finish line; it’s the baseline. You don’t get unstuck by proving yourself. You get unstuck by refusing to negotiate your worth another second.

I’m joining 15+ powerhouse women for The Boutique Business Council, Season 2—a free 4-day event for conscious entrepreneurs who want to grow without the hustle. We’re talking wealth as revolution, intuition in business, storytelling, alignment, and abundance without burnout. If you’re craving more from your career and want to build success that feels good to your soul—this is your invitation.

For generations, women were told wanting more makes us greedy. The truth? Money isn’t the enemy—it’s freedom, permission, and power. When we settle for “just enough,” we silence the part of us built for overflow. Money Without Apology: From Survival Mode to Overflow is your free guide to releasing scarcity and claiming unapologetic abundance—in your bank account, relationships, and life.

Blaming them kept me stuck. Owning my response set me free. Because when my response is my responsibility, I don’t have to wait for anyone else to change before I do.

Taylor Swift reminds us that women don’t have to choose—ambition and softness, success and love, beauty and brilliance can coexist. That’s the heartbeat of Yes, I Am Too Much™: The Pleasure, Power & Purpose Mastermind—where women stop shrinking and start claiming everything they want. If you’re ready for transformation, the presale is extended through 9/15 with 25% off. Your year. Your program. Your life. Come claim it.

I spent years shrinking—quieter, smaller, “less”—believing I was too much of everything. But the world doesn’t change because women shrink; it changes because we roar. 🦁 Yes, I Am Too Much™ is six months of unapologetic ignition—healing + coaching designed to help you stop circling and start living the career, relationships, body, and life you actually want. Presale is open now with 25% off—limited spots.

I spent years letting others define my worth—bosses, partners, friends, even doctors. Every judgment I absorbed was never about me, but their own fears and limits. The truth? The moment you hand over the steering wheel of your life, you’re living inside someone else’s fear. Become Her is the antidote—where women finally name what they’ve swallowed, take messy, holy steps forward, and say the unfiltered “F*ck Yes” to their own lives.

That flutter in your chest? It’s not fear—it’s your body saying don’t look away. Every woman you admire started before she was ready. Legacies aren’t born in certainty, they’re born in risk, in shaky first steps, in trusting your pulse over approval. That’s what’s happening inside Become Her. Women naming desires out loud, being celebrated, and this Thursday—we’re taking it even further. No replays. Just raw, unfiltered transformation.